Prop 8 = H8

November 17th, 2008

On a blistery cold Saturday morning, I woke up and thought, I’m going to do something meaningful. It might not be meaningful to some people (my manager, a gay man, told me right to my face that what I planned to do was pointless, stupid, and “against God’s law”), and it might not catch the eyes of the mainly-GOP state I reside in, but to me, it means everything. I got up, I bundled up, I took out my umbrella, made a sign, printed out a map, and drove an hour in the rain with bald tires to downtown Louisville. I fish-tailed once, but got control. (Don’t worry, I’m off to get new tires today!)

With a handful of others I stood on one of the street corners by City Hall for my civil rights. It rained the entire time, but a little rain meant nothing to us; we jumped up and down and cheered, chanted what do we want? Equal rights! for what seemed like forever. We waved the rainbow in the form of scarves, hats, umbrellas, flags, and whatever else seemed gay enough. We held our signs and shouted and heard our voices bounce powerfully off the walls of high skyscrapers. The weather was poor, but our spirits most certainly were not.

We were met with scrutiny from some people; surprise and confusion from others…but the most repeated reaction to our protest was support. Cars passed and drivers laid on their horns, shouting and yelling and cheering us on. They rolled their windows down and whooped, they chanted with us, smiled at us, and congratulated us. It was surprising and very heartwarming. I felt accomplished.

Here are the news broadcasts that featured our rally. If you look hard, I’m there in the front, wearing a hat and pea coat and shouting.
WHAS 11 Broadcast
WLKY Broadcast

I didn’t know I was on TV until today, so it’s kind of exciting. I don’t watch TV normally; we don’t have cable and I don’t care for regular programming unless it has to do with Daniel Craig shooting people and banging hot chicks at the same time.

I’m proud of myself, and of all of my peers that stood out with me, wanting badly to be recognized for who and what we are, for love. I’m proud of the initiative we as a national community took to raise awareness. I’m most of all proud that we, even in dangerous places, were brave enough to show up.

It makes me, more than ever before, proud to be gay. I hope that our cause reaches towards everyone.

5 Responses to “Prop 8 = H8”

  1. Jul Says:

    You Rock. I’m proud to know you. It takes guts to put yourself out there - I think it shows what you’re made of.

    Here in my city, it was cold and rainy to start, but we got a few thousand. It was pretty great…I just hope that people begin to see why we’re doing this.

  2. Ravenna Says:

    I love how it feels to be a part of a successful protest; I miss that feeling so much.
    Every Friday this summer, on my lunch break at work, we’d stand on the corner by the courthouse and protest the U.S. involvement in Iraq.
    Even if it’s a small accomplishment, we still felt we were accomplishing something as people honked their horns and sing along with our music and give us peace signs.
    Congrats! LOVE - R

  3. SteadyCat Says:

    Good for you and the crowds in the other states. It makes me feel proud. Gay people here (London) have civil partnerships but they never had to go through what we (gays) do in the states. Take care.

  4. Kayel Fucking Cambrian Says:

    I looked for you in the videos you posted, but I was unable to find you. At what time index can you be spotted?

  5. Chuck Says:

    I’m featured around 0:17-0:19 in the WHAS11 video. The sign in the picture here is mine. :D

Leave a Reply